"Compassion automatically invites you to relate with people because you no longer regard people as a drain on your energy"
About this Quote
The intent is practical, almost clinical: compassion isn't primarily a feeling; it's a shift in perception that changes behavior without heroic effort. "Automatically" matters. It's the opposite of self-improvement strain. Trungpa is pointing to a mind-state where relating becomes the default, not a task on a to-do list.
The subtext cuts deeper into ego management. Seeing others as drains often masks a fragile self trying to conserve itself, to control exposure to unpredictability, obligation, and emotional mess. Compassion, here, isn't self-sacrifice; it's the loosening of that defensive posture. You relate because you're no longer guarding a scarce inner resource.
Contextually, Trungpa taught Buddhism in the West at a time when spirituality was being imported into a culture obsessed with efficiency and personal boundaries. The quote reads like a corrective to both: it challenges the productivity mindset without romanticizing martyrdom. It's an argument that genuine openness doesn't deplete you; the fear of depletion does.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Trungpa, Chogyam. (2026, January 16). Compassion automatically invites you to relate with people because you no longer regard people as a drain on your energy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/compassion-automatically-invites-you-to-relate-87435/
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Trungpa, Chogyam. "Compassion automatically invites you to relate with people because you no longer regard people as a drain on your energy." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/compassion-automatically-invites-you-to-relate-87435/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Compassion automatically invites you to relate with people because you no longer regard people as a drain on your energy." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/compassion-automatically-invites-you-to-relate-87435/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







