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"Confidante: One entrusted by A with the secrets of B confided to herself by C"

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Bierce turns a tender word into a petty crime scene. A "confidante" is supposed to be the sanctuary figure, the velvet-lined box for your private life. Instead, in his hands, she becomes a relay system: A trusts her, but what she’s holding isn’t A’s truth at all. It’s B’s secrets, passed along indirectly, and not even by B with full agency, but "confided to herself by C" - the deliciously bureaucratic phrasing of gossip laundering.

The specific intent is definitional sabotage, Bierce’s signature move in The Devil’s Dictionary: take a social virtue, strip off the perfume, and show the mechanics underneath. He’s mocking the social theater of intimacy, where "trust" often functions less as a moral bond than as a currency that buys admission to other people’s information. The subtext is corrosive: confidences are rarely pure; they’re traded, repackaged, and weaponized, with each handoff granting the receiver status. The supposed listener is rewarded not for discretion but for access.

Context matters. Bierce wrote as a journalist steeped in political cynicism and public hypocrisy, in a late-19th-century culture of parlor networks and institutional corruption. His wit is sharp because it’s observational: a confidante isn’t just someone you tell things to; she’s someone who proves her worth by already knowing things. The nested initials make the relationship diagram feel like evidence, not friendship - intimacy rendered as paperwork, and trust as a chain of custody.

Quote Details

TopicFriendship
SourceAmbrose Bierce, "Confidante" entry, The Devil's Dictionary (collected definitions). Entry: "Confidante. One entrusted by A with the secrets of B confided to her by C."
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bierce, Ambrose. (2026, January 17). Confidante: One entrusted by A with the secrets of B confided to herself by C. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/confidante-one-entrusted-by-a-with-the-secrets-of-34594/

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Bierce, Ambrose. "Confidante: One entrusted by A with the secrets of B confided to herself by C." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/confidante-one-entrusted-by-a-with-the-secrets-of-34594/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Confidante: One entrusted by A with the secrets of B confided to herself by C." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/confidante-one-entrusted-by-a-with-the-secrets-of-34594/. Accessed 29 Mar. 2026.

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Ambrose Bierce

Ambrose Bierce (June 24, 1842 - December 26, 1914) was a Journalist from USA.

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