"Confidante: One entrusted by A with the secrets of B confided to herself by C"
About this Quote
The specific intent is definitional sabotage, Bierce’s signature move in The Devil’s Dictionary: take a social virtue, strip off the perfume, and show the mechanics underneath. He’s mocking the social theater of intimacy, where "trust" often functions less as a moral bond than as a currency that buys admission to other people’s information. The subtext is corrosive: confidences are rarely pure; they’re traded, repackaged, and weaponized, with each handoff granting the receiver status. The supposed listener is rewarded not for discretion but for access.
Context matters. Bierce wrote as a journalist steeped in political cynicism and public hypocrisy, in a late-19th-century culture of parlor networks and institutional corruption. His wit is sharp because it’s observational: a confidante isn’t just someone you tell things to; she’s someone who proves her worth by already knowing things. The nested initials make the relationship diagram feel like evidence, not friendship - intimacy rendered as paperwork, and trust as a chain of custody.
Quote Details
| Topic | Friendship |
|---|---|
| Source | Ambrose Bierce, "Confidante" entry, The Devil's Dictionary (collected definitions). Entry: "Confidante. One entrusted by A with the secrets of B confided to her by C." |
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Bierce, Ambrose. (2026, January 17). Confidante: One entrusted by A with the secrets of B confided to herself by C. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/confidante-one-entrusted-by-a-with-the-secrets-of-34594/
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Bierce, Ambrose. "Confidante: One entrusted by A with the secrets of B confided to herself by C." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/confidante-one-entrusted-by-a-with-the-secrets-of-34594/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Confidante: One entrusted by A with the secrets of B confided to herself by C." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/confidante-one-entrusted-by-a-with-the-secrets-of-34594/. Accessed 29 Mar. 2026.










