"Conventional people are roused to fury by departure from convention, largely because they regard such departure as a criticism of themselves"
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Russell slips a knife into the social ego and twists it: the real offense isn’t rule-breaking, it’s the implied comparison. “Conventional people” aren’t simply cautious; they’re invested. Convention functions like a moral receipt - proof you’ve paid your dues, played the game, earned belonging. When someone departs from it, the act reads less like personal choice and more like an audit. If you can live otherwise, then maybe the “should” wasn’t a should at all, just fear dressed up as virtue.
The brilliance is in the psychology. Russell doesn’t frame fury as principled defense of order, but as self-defense. Anger becomes a kind of cognitive bodyguard, rushing in to protect a threatened self-image. He’s diagnosing a mechanism we still see: the way dissent, nonconformity, queerness, childfree lives, unconventional careers, even refusing a social script at the dinner table can trigger disproportionate outrage. The reaction is rarely proportional to the act; it’s proportional to the insecurity it exposes.
Context matters. Russell wrote in a century rattled by collapsing certainties - religious authority weakened, class systems strained, women’s roles shifting, new politics and new wars rewriting what counted as “normal.” As a public intellectual and outspoken critic of dogma (often paying reputational costs), he knew how quickly “I choose differently” gets translated into “I think you’re wrong.”
The line’s cynicism lands because it’s generous in a backhanded way: it suggests many moral panics are less about morality than about identity maintenance. Convention isn’t just a habit; it’s a fragile self-portrait.
The brilliance is in the psychology. Russell doesn’t frame fury as principled defense of order, but as self-defense. Anger becomes a kind of cognitive bodyguard, rushing in to protect a threatened self-image. He’s diagnosing a mechanism we still see: the way dissent, nonconformity, queerness, childfree lives, unconventional careers, even refusing a social script at the dinner table can trigger disproportionate outrage. The reaction is rarely proportional to the act; it’s proportional to the insecurity it exposes.
Context matters. Russell wrote in a century rattled by collapsing certainties - religious authority weakened, class systems strained, women’s roles shifting, new politics and new wars rewriting what counted as “normal.” As a public intellectual and outspoken critic of dogma (often paying reputational costs), he knew how quickly “I choose differently” gets translated into “I think you’re wrong.”
The line’s cynicism lands because it’s generous in a backhanded way: it suggests many moral panics are less about morality than about identity maintenance. Convention isn’t just a habit; it’s a fragile self-portrait.
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