"Convincing yourself doesn't win an argument"
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The intent is pragmatic, not philosophical: arguments are social transactions, not private proofs. Half is pointing to the gap between being right in your own head and moving a decision in a room full of other incentives. The subtext is that most “arguments” aren’t about truth so much as alignment - of priorities, risk tolerance, status, and timing. Convincing yourself is a kind of closed-loop system: you control the premises, you grade the logic, you award yourself the win. The other person doesn’t get a vote, which is precisely the problem.
As a businessman who built a staffing empire, Half would’ve lived inside negotiations where outcomes hinge less on brilliance than on framing. You don’t win by stacking reasons; you win by understanding what the other side needs to hear, fears to admit, or must report back to their boss. The quote also needles the ego: certainty can masquerade as competence, but it often signals a failure to listen. In that sense, it’s an argument for empathy as strategy - not the soft kind, the effective kind.
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