"Courage can't see around corners but goes around them anyway"
About this Quote
The craft is in the geometry. "Corners" are everyday obstacles, not dragons: a hard conversation, a risky application, a vote that will make you unpopular at dinner. Corners also imply the limits of perception. You can only see what's in front of you, which makes hesitation feel rational. McLaughlin concedes that rationality - "can't see" - then pivots with a blunt, almost impatient "anyway". That's the emotional hinge: courage isn't the absence of doubt; it's the decision that doubt doesn't get veto power.
As a journalist who wrote widely on domestic life and social mores, McLaughlin was speaking from a mid-century culture that prized composure and punished messy uncertainty, especially in private spheres. Her aphorism quietly argues against that performative certainty. It validates the stammer, the imperfect plan, the leap made without a guarantee. In a media climate that sells confidence as competence, the quote lands as a small act of resistance: stop waiting for clarity to confer permission.
It's also a rebuke to cowardice's favorite alibi - "I just need more information". Sometimes you do. Often you don't. The corner isn't hiding a map; it's hiding reality. Courage is agreeing to meet it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Resilience |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: The Neurotic's Notebook (Mignon McLaughlin, 1963)
Evidence: Courage can't see around corners but goes around them anyway. (Chapter 4 (exact page not verified)). The strongest primary-source lead is Mignon McLaughlin's own book The Neurotic's Notebook, published by Bobbs-Merrill in 1963. Google Books confirms the 1963 edition and table of contents, and multiple quotation references consistently attribute this saying to that book, specifically Chapter 4. However, I could not directly inspect the full scanned page to verify the exact page number within the 1963 edition. There is also a secondary claim that some McLaughlin aphorisms first appeared in her 'The Neurotic's Notebook' column in The Atlantic, but I did not find a primary Atlantic source confirming this quote earlier than the 1963 book. So the earliest verifiable primary source I found is the 1963 book itself. Other candidates (1) The Mourner's Book of Courage (Alan Wolfelt, 2012) compilation95.0% ... Courage can't see around corners but goes around them anyway . ~ Mignon McLaughlin When we least expect it , life... |
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