"Courage is very important. Like a muscle, it is strengthened by use"
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Courage gets demystified here, stripped of its movie-moment glamour and recast as something almost stubbornly practical. Ruth Gordon, an actress who built a late-blooming, scene-stealing career out of sharp edges and oddball warmth, treats bravery less like a personality trait and more like a daily regimen. The muscle metaphor matters because it implies friction: courage grows through resistance, through the small, repeatable acts that feel uncomfortable, embarrassing, or socially risky. It is a line that quietly rejects the fantasy that confident people are born that way.
The intent is motivational, but not in the syrupy way. Gordon is offering permission to start unimpressively. If courage is trained, then you do not need a heroic origin story; you need reps. The subtext is about agency under pressure: you cannot control fear showing up, but you can control whether you keep practicing moving through it. That reframes “being scared” as part of the process rather than evidence you lack the goods.
Context sharpens it. Gordon lived through eras that didn’t exactly hand women authority by default, especially in creative industries. For an actress, “use” isn’t abstract; it’s auditioning again after rejection, aging in public, taking roles that might make you look strange instead of lovable. The quote works because it’s unsentimental and embodied: courage isn’t a halo. It’s conditioning, earned in private, revealed in public.
The intent is motivational, but not in the syrupy way. Gordon is offering permission to start unimpressively. If courage is trained, then you do not need a heroic origin story; you need reps. The subtext is about agency under pressure: you cannot control fear showing up, but you can control whether you keep practicing moving through it. That reframes “being scared” as part of the process rather than evidence you lack the goods.
Context sharpens it. Gordon lived through eras that didn’t exactly hand women authority by default, especially in creative industries. For an actress, “use” isn’t abstract; it’s auditioning again after rejection, aging in public, taking roles that might make you look strange instead of lovable. The quote works because it’s unsentimental and embodied: courage isn’t a halo. It’s conditioning, earned in private, revealed in public.
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| Topic | Confidence |
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