"Cure yourself of the affliction of caring how you appear to others. Concern yourself only with how you appear before God, concern yourself only with the idea that God may have of you"
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The move is also more psychologically shrewd than piously abstract. “How you appear to others” isn’t just vanity; it’s the compulsion to edit the self into something legible and applauded. Unamuno counters with a different audience: God, imagined not as a PR metric but as the one gaze you can’t game. The phrase “the idea that God may have of you” is strikingly intellectual, almost Kantian: God’s “idea” suggests an ethical standard that exceeds your self-narration. It’s not “how you feel” about yourself, or even how devout you look, but how you stand when stripped of witnesses and excuses.
Subtextually, Unamuno is also distrustful of institutions. He doesn’t say “before the Church” or “before society’s moral code.” He jumps over the intermediaries to an inner reckoning. For an educator-philosopher obsessed with faith as struggle rather than comfort, that’s the point: authenticity isn’t a vibe; it’s accountability. The quote weaponizes solitude against conformity, asking you to trade the cheap certainty of approval for the harder, lonelier discipline of integrity.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Unamuno, Miguel de. (2026, January 15). Cure yourself of the affliction of caring how you appear to others. Concern yourself only with how you appear before God, concern yourself only with the idea that God may have of you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/cure-yourself-of-the-affliction-of-caring-how-you-164283/
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Unamuno, Miguel de. "Cure yourself of the affliction of caring how you appear to others. Concern yourself only with how you appear before God, concern yourself only with the idea that God may have of you." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/cure-yourself-of-the-affliction-of-caring-how-you-164283/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Cure yourself of the affliction of caring how you appear to others. Concern yourself only with how you appear before God, concern yourself only with the idea that God may have of you." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/cure-yourself-of-the-affliction-of-caring-how-you-164283/. Accessed 28 Feb. 2026.




