"Customs and convictions change; respectable people are the last to know, or to admit, the change, and the ones most offended by fresh reflections of the facts in the mirror of art"
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The intent is partly diagnostic, partly defensive. Updike is explaining why literature so often gets accused of being obscene, cynical, or “unnecessary”: art doesn’t invent moral change so much as it accelerates recognition. Customs shift first in private behavior, then in whispered rationalizations, then (much later) in public permission. Convictions are the story people tell themselves to pretend the shift never happened. Respectability, in his framing, is a performance that depends on controlling the timing of acknowledgment.
The subtext is that offense is rarely about the work itself; it’s about being caught up to. “Fresh reflections” suggests art as a mirror with better lighting than polite society prefers. The newness isn’t the act or desire being depicted but the unforgiving clarity. Updike is also protecting the novelist’s job description: to show what’s already true before it’s socially safe to say.
Context matters: Updike wrote through the sexual revolution, second-wave feminism, and the culture wars around obscenity and “family values.” His own fiction was routinely read as either candid or morally suspect. This line is his retort to the guardians of decorum: you’re not offended because art lies, you’re offended because it stops cooperating with your denials.
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Updike, John. (2026, January 18). Customs and convictions change; respectable people are the last to know, or to admit, the change, and the ones most offended by fresh reflections of the facts in the mirror of art. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/customs-and-convictions-change-respectable-people-2184/
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Updike, John. "Customs and convictions change; respectable people are the last to know, or to admit, the change, and the ones most offended by fresh reflections of the facts in the mirror of art." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/customs-and-convictions-change-respectable-people-2184/.
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"Customs and convictions change; respectable people are the last to know, or to admit, the change, and the ones most offended by fresh reflections of the facts in the mirror of art." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/customs-and-convictions-change-respectable-people-2184/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.







