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Daily Inspiration Quote by Barbara Walters

"Deep breaths are very helpful at shallow parties"

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Deep breaths are the kind of advice that sounds like wellness culture until you realize it is really social triage. Barbara Walters turns a basic self-soothing tactic into a sly diagnosis of a whole ecosystem: the “shallow party,” where conversation skates on safe surfaces, status quietly does the talking, and everyone performs being effortless. The joke lands because it’s compressed and clinical. “Deep” and “shallow” aren’t just opposites; they’re a private protest against environments that demand charm without substance.

Walters’ intent feels less like contempt than competence. As a journalist who spent decades navigating power rooms disguised as cocktail hours, she understood that proximity to important people often comes wrapped in boredom, small talk, and micro-aggressions. The line reads like field guidance from someone who has done the job: regulate your body, keep your face neutral, don’t let irritation write your headline for you.

The subtext is also a little feminist, in the Walters way: she’s acknowledging the invisible labor of social endurance, especially for women expected to be pleasant no matter how empty the exchange. “Helpful” is doing double duty, suggesting both survival and strategy. You breathe to stay calm, but you also breathe to buy time, to observe, to wait for an opening where something real can be asked or said.

Context matters: Walters moved between television intimacy and elite spectacle. That tension is the punchline. In spaces that reward surfaces, depth becomes an internal practice, not a shared one.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Walters, Barbara. (2026, January 17). Deep breaths are very helpful at shallow parties. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/deep-breaths-are-very-helpful-at-shallow-parties-62571/

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Walters, Barbara. "Deep breaths are very helpful at shallow parties." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/deep-breaths-are-very-helpful-at-shallow-parties-62571/.

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"Deep breaths are very helpful at shallow parties." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/deep-breaths-are-very-helpful-at-shallow-parties-62571/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Barbara Walters (September 25, 1931 - December 30, 2022) was a Journalist from USA.

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