"Defy your own group. Rebel against yourself"
About this Quote
"Rebel against yourself" is the sharper blade. The subtext is that the most tyrannical authority is often your own internalized rules - the version of you built from expectations, self-help slogans, gender roles, workplace norms, and the little bargains you make to stay liked. It’s funny because it’s accusatory: you can’t blame "society" if you’re the one enforcing its curfew in your own head.
Context matters: Guisewite’s work emerged alongside second-wave feminism and the late-20th-century therapy culture that taught people to name their patterns. This quote sits at the intersection of those currents and today’s identity politics. It argues for a more uncomfortable kind of growth: not just resisting power "out there", but interrogating the micro-loyalties and habits that keep you predictable.
Quote Details
| Topic | Reinvention |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Guisewite, Cathy. (2026, January 17). Defy your own group. Rebel against yourself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/defy-your-own-group-rebel-against-yourself-30441/
Chicago Style
Guisewite, Cathy. "Defy your own group. Rebel against yourself." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/defy-your-own-group-rebel-against-yourself-30441/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Defy your own group. Rebel against yourself." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/defy-your-own-group-rebel-against-yourself-30441/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







