"Depend upon it that if a man talks of his misfortunes there is something in them that is not disagreeable to him; for where there is nothing but pure misery there never is any recourse to the mention of it"
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What makes the sentence work is its unsentimental psychology. Johnson doesn’t deny hardship; he distrusts the way we narrate it. The phrase “Depend upon it” is a preemptive shove, asserting authority before the reader can object. Then comes the twist: misery can be “not disagreeable.” That double negative is doing heavy lifting. It implies a sly, half-admitted satisfaction - not joy, but a taste for the secondary benefits of complaint.
The subtext is also about silence. “Pure misery” has no rhetoric, no audience strategy, no room for self-dramatization. When pain is total, language collapses into mere endurance; you don’t “mention” it because you’re too busy surviving it. Johnson, writing in an 18th-century culture of wit, letters, and public talk, is diagnosing how emotions become social acts. He’s warning that repeated lament is often less a cry for help than a bid for significance - and that the most serious suffering may be the kind you never hear narrated at all.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Johnson, Samuel. (2026, January 17). Depend upon it that if a man talks of his misfortunes there is something in them that is not disagreeable to him; for where there is nothing but pure misery there never is any recourse to the mention of it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/depend-upon-it-that-if-a-man-talks-of-his-41868/
Chicago Style
Johnson, Samuel. "Depend upon it that if a man talks of his misfortunes there is something in them that is not disagreeable to him; for where there is nothing but pure misery there never is any recourse to the mention of it." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/depend-upon-it-that-if-a-man-talks-of-his-41868/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Depend upon it that if a man talks of his misfortunes there is something in them that is not disagreeable to him; for where there is nothing but pure misery there never is any recourse to the mention of it." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/depend-upon-it-that-if-a-man-talks-of-his-41868/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.













