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Motherhood Quote by Amy Grant

"Depending on what day of the week it is and what time of the month it is, I'm a good friend or not a good friend. I'm more or less a good mom or not a good mom, more or less a good mate or not a good mate. That's just life, whether or not you're public"

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Grant’s line lands because it refuses the tidy, brand-friendly version of womanhood that celebrity culture still tries to sell. She’s not confessing to being unreliable so much as naming the rotating scoreboard that women, especially public ones, live under: friend, mother, partner, all graded in real time. By anchoring her self-assessment to “day of the week” and “time of the month,” she smuggles the body into the conversation. That’s not a punchline; it’s a reminder that mood, hormones, fatigue, and stress are part of the machinery of daily life, yet they’re treated like character flaws when a woman is evaluated.

The subtext is a quiet revolt against the “role model” trap. Public figures are expected to be consistent, endlessly available, and morally legible; a musician is supposed to deliver the same stage-ready self no matter what’s happening offstage. Grant punctures that with a plainspoken realism: goodness isn’t a stable identity, it’s a fluctuating practice. “More or less” does the heavy lifting, rejecting the binary of good/bad in favor of a spectrum most people recognize but rarely admit out loud.

The final clause, “whether or not you’re public,” widens the frame. She’s not asking for special exemptions because fame is hard; she’s insisting that visibility doesn’t change the human baseline, it just amplifies the scrutiny. It’s an empathy play, but also a boundary: let me be uneven, as you are, without turning it into a headline or a moral verdict.

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Amy Grant (born November 25, 1960) is a Musician from USA.

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