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Love Quote by Doug Coupland

"Depression is when you have lots of love, but no one's taking"

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Depression, in Coupland's telling, isn’t framed as emptiness so much as a tragic surplus: an emotional inventory stacked high with nowhere to ship it. The line works because it flips a familiar self-help script. We’re used to hearing depression described as numbness, absence, void. Coupland gives it logistics. Love becomes a stranded resource, and the sufferer becomes both warehouse and wasteland.

The phrase "no one's taking" is the knife twist. Not "no one wants it", not "I can’t give it", but the passive, transactional language of a marketplace where the problem is demand. It’s a quietly brutal indictment of how modern life can convert intimacy into a kind of supply chain: you have the capacity, even the desire, to connect, but there’s no reliable infrastructure for receiving, reciprocating, or even noticing. The subtext isn’t only loneliness; it’s misrecognition. You are full of feeling, yet socially unreadable, or socially unreceived.

Coupland, a chronicler of late-20th-century alienation, often writes in the key of cool surfaces and private panic: people surrounded by brands, media, and chatter, but starving for genuine exchange. In that context, the quote lands like a minimalist slogan for a maximal problem. It also sidesteps the sentimental idea that love, simply offered, heals. Here, love can curdle into pain when it has no outlet, turning generosity into self-reproach: if the love isn’t being taken, maybe the giver is the product nobody wants.

That’s why it stings. It makes depression legible not as personal failure, but as a relational dead zone.

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Coupland, Doug. (n.d.). Depression is when you have lots of love, but no one's taking. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/depression-is-when-you-have-lots-of-love-but-no-51210/

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Coupland, Doug. "Depression is when you have lots of love, but no one's taking." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/depression-is-when-you-have-lots-of-love-but-no-51210/.

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"Depression is when you have lots of love, but no one's taking." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/depression-is-when-you-have-lots-of-love-but-no-51210/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.

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Doug Coupland

Doug Coupland (born December 30, 1961) is a Author from Canada.

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