"Desire is a contract you make with yourself to be unhappy until you get what you want"
About this Quote
The punch is in the conditional timeline: "unhappy until". Desire isnt framed as motivation or appetite but as a deferred-payment plan for emotional stability. Youre not chasing the object so much as outsourcing your mood to a future event. That reframes wanting as a kind of leverage someone else holds over you: a promotion, a partner, a number in a bank account. The moment happiness becomes contingent, you hand your present to a moving target.
Ravikants broader context is Silicon Valleys worship of optimization, where ambition is treated like a virtue and dissatisfaction like fuel. This quote smuggles in a critique of that culture without sounding anti-ambition. He isnt saying "dont want things". Hes warning that desire, left unexamined, quietly converts your life into a waiting room.
Subtextually, its also a status jab: modern desire is rarely pure. It comes preloaded with comparison, signaling, and the suspicion that once you get it, the contract will simply roll over to the next want. The line works because it makes craving feel procedural, not romantic - and suddenly you can imagine canceling it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Happiness |
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| Source | The Almanack of Naval Ravikant (Eric Jorgenson, 2020) , compiled from Naval Ravikant’s tweets, interviews, and podcast appearances |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ravikant, Naval. (2026, January 24). Desire is a contract you make with yourself to be unhappy until you get what you want. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/desire-is-a-contract-you-make-with-yourself-to-be-184079/
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Ravikant, Naval. "Desire is a contract you make with yourself to be unhappy until you get what you want." FixQuotes. January 24, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/desire-is-a-contract-you-make-with-yourself-to-be-184079/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Desire is a contract you make with yourself to be unhappy until you get what you want." FixQuotes, 24 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/desire-is-a-contract-you-make-with-yourself-to-be-184079/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










