"Desire is individual. Happiness is common"
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“Happiness,” by contrast, is framed less as a personal achievement than a shared frequency. Common not because it’s easy, but because it’s recognizable: relief, connection, safety, the sense that you’re not performing for approval. That word choice quietly demotes status markers. He isn’t talking about dopamine fireworks or lifestyle branding; he’s hinting at a baseline human “yes” that doesn’t need special equipment.
The subtext is a critique of how modern culture monetizes desire and then confuses it for fulfillment. Desire is perfect for markets and algorithms: hyper-specific, endlessly renewable, ripe for comparison. Happiness is harder to sell because it’s often unglamorous and stabilizing. You stop scrolling when you’re content.
Coming from a musician whose work often circles alienation, cool detachment, and the boredom beneath luxury, the line reads like self-diagnosis and warning label. Chase desire long enough and you get a playlist of selves. Find happiness and you start sounding, inconveniently, like everyone else - which might be the point.
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| Topic | Happiness |
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| Source | Later attribution: the Ultimate Book of Quotations (Joseph Demakis, 2012) modern compilationISBN: 9781300095132 · ID: kOnjAwAAQBAJ
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| Featured | This quote was our Quote of the Day on August 29, 2023 |
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