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War & Peace Quote by Félix Houphouët-Boigny

"Dialogue is the weapon of the strong and not the weak, It is the weapon of those who pass their general problems before the particular problems, before questions of self-love"

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Calling dialogue a "weapon" is a deliberate inversion: Felix Houphouet-Boigny recasts talk not as softness but as power exercised with restraint. Coming from a president who built his long rule in Cote d'Ivoire on pragmatism, elite bargaining, and an almost managerial preference for stability, the line reads like a governing philosophy disguised as moral instruction. He is arguing that the strongest actor is the one who can afford to negotiate because strength is the capacity to delay gratification, absorb insult, and still choose compromise.

The subtext is less kumbaya than discipline. "The strong" are those able to subordinate ego to agenda, to treat politics as the art of sequencing: general problems first, particular grievances later. In postcolonial states juggling ethnic coalitions, economic dependency, and the ever-present threat of coups, that hierarchy is not abstract. It is a survival strategy. He is telling rivals and citizens alike: if you insist on litigating every personal slight, you will never build institutions capable of outlasting you.

There's also a quiet warning embedded in the praise of dialogue. By defining disagreement as a test of character, he delegitimizes oppositional politics that centers on identity, patronage, or "self-love". Dialogue becomes both an ethic and a gatekeeping tool: the mature statesman talks; the petty actor agitates. In the Cold War-era African political landscape, where "national unity" rhetoric often justified concentrated executive power, this framing allows negotiation to look like magnanimity while keeping the terms of that negotiation firmly in the hands of the state.

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TopicPeace
SourceAddress in front of the Diplomatic Corps (January 1, 1970) [translated].
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Houphouët-Boigny, Félix. (2026, February 17). Dialogue is the weapon of the strong and not the weak, It is the weapon of those who pass their general problems before the particular problems, before questions of self-love. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dialogue-is-the-weapon-of-the-strong-and-not-the-185586/

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Houphouët-Boigny, Félix. "Dialogue is the weapon of the strong and not the weak, It is the weapon of those who pass their general problems before the particular problems, before questions of self-love." FixQuotes. February 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dialogue-is-the-weapon-of-the-strong-and-not-the-185586/.

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"Dialogue is the weapon of the strong and not the weak, It is the weapon of those who pass their general problems before the particular problems, before questions of self-love." FixQuotes, 17 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dialogue-is-the-weapon-of-the-strong-and-not-the-185586/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.

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Félix Houphouët-Boigny

Félix Houphouët-Boigny (October 18, 1905 - December 7, 1993) was a President from Ivory Coast.

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