"Dialogue is the weapon of the strong and not the weak, It is the weapon of those who pass their general problems before the particular problems, before questions of self-love"
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The subtext is less kumbaya than discipline. "The strong" are those able to subordinate ego to agenda, to treat politics as the art of sequencing: general problems first, particular grievances later. In postcolonial states juggling ethnic coalitions, economic dependency, and the ever-present threat of coups, that hierarchy is not abstract. It is a survival strategy. He is telling rivals and citizens alike: if you insist on litigating every personal slight, you will never build institutions capable of outlasting you.
There's also a quiet warning embedded in the praise of dialogue. By defining disagreement as a test of character, he delegitimizes oppositional politics that centers on identity, patronage, or "self-love". Dialogue becomes both an ethic and a gatekeeping tool: the mature statesman talks; the petty actor agitates. In the Cold War-era African political landscape, where "national unity" rhetoric often justified concentrated executive power, this framing allows negotiation to look like magnanimity while keeping the terms of that negotiation firmly in the hands of the state.
Quote Details
| Topic | Peace |
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| Source | Address in front of the Diplomatic Corps (January 1, 1970) [translated]. |
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"Dialogue is the weapon of the strong and not the weak, It is the weapon of those who pass their general problems before the particular problems, before questions of self-love." FixQuotes, 17 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dialogue-is-the-weapon-of-the-strong-and-not-the-185586/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.









