"Did you know that, if you visualise, you can actually hug on the phone?"
About this Quote
The intent reads practical and comforting: if you cannot be there, you can still offer something like presence. The subtext is a little more complicated. "If you visualise" smuggles in a whole worldview where loneliness is an engineering problem and the mind is the tool kit. That is empowering, and also a tell: the burden shifts to the person missing the hug to conjure it, to make absence feel like enough. There is an almost actorly quality here, too - visualization as method, affect as something you can summon with craft.
Context matters: an actress associated with warm, relationship-driven sitcom culture sells a pre-smartphone idea of connection, when voice carried more weight and distance felt like a plot point, not a lifestyle. It also anticipates the current era, when we compensate for disembodiment with rituals (voice notes, FaceTime, reaction hearts). The line is charming because it is both a little naive and quietly accurate: intimacy is often less about proximity than about attention, and attention, like performance, can be practiced.
Quote Details
| Topic | Long-Distance Relationship |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Long, Shelley. (2026, January 17). Did you know that, if you visualise, you can actually hug on the phone? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/did-you-know-that-if-you-visualise-you-can-65308/
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Long, Shelley. "Did you know that, if you visualise, you can actually hug on the phone?" FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/did-you-know-that-if-you-visualise-you-can-65308/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Did you know that, if you visualise, you can actually hug on the phone?" FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/did-you-know-that-if-you-visualise-you-can-65308/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.









