"Different strokes, for different folks"
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The phrase works because it refuses the usual hierarchy. It doesn’t argue for one “right” way to live, love, dance, pray, or protest. It treats difference as a fact pattern, not a problem to solve. That’s the subtext: stop demanding that people translate themselves into your comfort zone. Coming from a musician whose band was famously interracial and gender-mixed, the line isn’t abstract; it’s autobiographical. It’s also tactical. In four beats, it disarms the listener. No sermon, no scolding, just vernacular wisdom you can repeat at a party, then realize you’ve absorbed a politics.
There’s a sly (pun intended) elasticity to it, too. It can be generous - live and let live - or quietly dismissive, a way to end an argument without conceding anything. That ambiguity is part of its cultural longevity: it flatters the speaker as open-minded while leaving the hard work of justice conveniently unspecified.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
|---|---|
| Source | Lyric "Different strokes for different folks" — from the song "Everyday People" (written and performed by Sly & the Family Stone, Sly Stone); single released 1968. |
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Stone, Sly. (2026, January 16). Different strokes, for different folks. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/different-strokes-for-different-folks-124922/
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Stone, Sly. "Different strokes, for different folks." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/different-strokes-for-different-folks-124922/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Different strokes, for different folks." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/different-strokes-for-different-folks-124922/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





