"Dinner was made for eating, not for talking"
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The phrasing works because it sounds indisputable. Of course dinner is for eating. That obviousness is the weapon: it lets Thackeray smuggle a critique of idle chatter, vanity, and the thin conversational coin of polite society. “Talking” here isn’t communication; it’s display. The line implies that speech at the table often serves to delay, to posture, to jockey for social advantage while the actual meal goes cold. Food becomes the honest labor; conversation becomes the con.
There’s also a class edge. To say eating should outrank talking is to side, implicitly, with appetite and practicality over refinement and leisure. It hints that people who can afford endless discourse have forgotten the purpose of the thing in front of them. As a novelist steeped in satire, Thackeray uses the domestic scene as a miniature of a wider hypocrisy: a society that prefers appearances to substance, and can’t resist turning even nourishment into an opportunity for self-congratulation.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Thackeray, William Makepeace. (2026, January 18). Dinner was made for eating, not for talking. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dinner-was-made-for-eating-not-for-talking-15100/
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Thackeray, William Makepeace. "Dinner was made for eating, not for talking." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dinner-was-made-for-eating-not-for-talking-15100/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Dinner was made for eating, not for talking." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dinner-was-made-for-eating-not-for-talking-15100/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







