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Art & Creativity Quote by Kofi Busia

"Diplomacy means the art of nearly deceiving all your friends, but not quite deceiving all your enemies"

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Diplomacy, in Busia's framing, is a high-wire act performed without a net: you survive by creating just enough ambiguity to keep everyone leaning toward cooperation, without tipping into outright betrayal. The sting is in the asymmetry. Friends get "nearly" deceived because alliances, aid, and regional solidarity run on managed expectations. You promise, you delay, you rename concessions as "frameworks". The goal isn't to lie for sport; it's to preserve room to maneuver while maintaining the moral credit that friendships require. Cross the line and you don't just lose a deal, you lose legitimacy.

Enemies, by contrast, must never be "quite" deceived because total deception breeds overconfidence and miscalculation. Busia implies a cold prudence: if adversaries believe your bluff completely, they may act rashly when the truth surfaces, forcing escalation. Effective statecraft lets opponents see enough of the real picture - your capacity, your red lines, your resolve - to deter them without provoking them. It's chess, not theater.

Coming from a mid-20th-century African statesman navigating decolonization's aftershocks, Cold War courtship, and the fragile architecture of new nations, the quote reads like hard-earned realism. Newly independent states were pressured to perform loyalty to blocs while protecting domestic sovereignty. Busia's wit is disciplined, not flippant: he exposes diplomacy as the respectable language we use for strategic half-truths, insisting the real art lies in calibrating trust and threat with almost surgical restraint.

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Busia, Kofi. (2026, January 15). Diplomacy means the art of nearly deceiving all your friends, but not quite deceiving all your enemies. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/diplomacy-means-the-art-of-nearly-deceiving-all-62320/

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Busia, Kofi. "Diplomacy means the art of nearly deceiving all your friends, but not quite deceiving all your enemies." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/diplomacy-means-the-art-of-nearly-deceiving-all-62320/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Diplomacy means the art of nearly deceiving all your friends, but not quite deceiving all your enemies." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/diplomacy-means-the-art-of-nearly-deceiving-all-62320/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.

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Kofi Busia (July 11, 1913 - August 24, 1978) was a Statesman from Ghana.

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