"Diplomacy: the art of restraining power"
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The intent is classic Kissinger: rehabilitate diplomacy as hard power’s necessary partner, not its sentimental alternative. In a world of nuclear weapons, ideological blocs, and rapidly cascading crises, the most catastrophic failure is not a lack of righteousness but a lack of control. Diplomacy becomes the mechanism that translates raw advantage into stable outcomes - by offering off-ramps, face-saving compromises, and rules of the game that prevent dominance from tipping into disaster.
The subtext is also a quiet warning. If diplomacy is “restraining power,” then power is presumed primary and ever-present, and moral aspirations are secondary to managing consequences. That’s the realist worldview in a sentence: the international system isn’t governed by shared ethics but by competing interests, so survival depends on limits - self-imposed or mutually enforced.
Context sharpens the edge. Kissinger’s career sat at the hinge of American supremacy and Cold War volatility: Vietnam, detente with the Soviet Union, the opening to China, Middle East shuttle diplomacy. His critics hear a cold admission that diplomacy serves power’s legitimacy. His admirers hear something darker and more pragmatic: without restraint, even the “right” side can become the threat.
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