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Daily Inspiration Quote by Ali ibn Abi Talib

"Do not be too hard, lest you be broken; do not be too soft, lest you be squeezed"

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Power here isn’t brute force; it’s tensile strength. Ali ibn Abi Talib’s warning lands like a piece of field-tested governance advice disguised as moral counsel: calibrate your character the way a ruler calibrates policy. Too hard and you shatter under pressure; too soft and you become someone else’s instrument. The brilliance is in the paired verbs. “Broken” implies an internal collapse, a self-inflicted failure mode of rigidity. “Squeezed” suggests an external threat, the slow coercion that happens when others sense pliability. One danger comes from the spine; the other comes from the crowd.

Ali’s context matters. As a central early Islamic figure navigating civil strife, contested legitimacy, and the messy transition from prophetic community to political state, he knew how moral purity can become political impracticality, and how mercy can be mistaken for weakness. Read as spiritual instruction, the line rejects performative asceticism and unchecked leniency alike. Read as leadership doctrine, it’s a critique of absolutism: the leader who cannot bend becomes a symbol before becoming a casualty; the leader who bends too easily invites opportunists.

The subtext is pragmatic without being cynical. It treats ethics as something that must survive contact with real people: rivals, allies, family, the public. The aphorism’s symmetry is the hook, but its intent is survival with dignity. It asks for steadiness, not stiffness; compassion, not capitulation.

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Talib, Ali ibn Abi. (2026, January 15). Do not be too hard, lest you be broken; do not be too soft, lest you be squeezed. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-not-be-too-hard-lest-you-be-broken-do-not-be-43828/

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Talib, Ali ibn Abi. "Do not be too hard, lest you be broken; do not be too soft, lest you be squeezed." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-not-be-too-hard-lest-you-be-broken-do-not-be-43828/.

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"Do not be too hard, lest you be broken; do not be too soft, lest you be squeezed." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-not-be-too-hard-lest-you-be-broken-do-not-be-43828/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Ali ibn Abi Talib (600 AC - 661 AC) was a Clergyman from Saudi Arabia.

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