"Do not do unto others as you expect they should do unto you. Their tastes may not be the same"
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The bite is in “Their tastes may not be the same.” Taste here isn’t just preference about food or art; it’s shorthand for class, culture, temperament, desire. Shaw’s Edwardian world was full of reformers and do-gooders convinced that salvation looked like their own habits. His warning reads as a preemptive strike against paternalism: the charitable act that’s really a performance of superiority, the advice that’s really a demand to be mirrored back.
As a playwright, Shaw also knows how cruelty can travel disguised as virtue. Giving people what you would want can become a socially acceptable way to ignore who they are. The line advocates a harder ethic than the Golden Rule: imaginative empathy. Not “How would I feel?” but “How does this person feel, given their own inner weather?” It’s comedy sharpened into instruction - a reminder that decency requires curiosity, not just good intentions.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Shaw, George Bernard. (2026, January 15). Do not do unto others as you expect they should do unto you. Their tastes may not be the same. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-not-do-unto-others-as-you-expect-they-should-35560/
Chicago Style
Shaw, George Bernard. "Do not do unto others as you expect they should do unto you. Their tastes may not be the same." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-not-do-unto-others-as-you-expect-they-should-35560/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Do not do unto others as you expect they should do unto you. Their tastes may not be the same." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-not-do-unto-others-as-you-expect-they-should-35560/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.






