"Do not impose on others what you yourself do not desire"
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The subtext is political. In Confucius's world, order wasn’t an abstract ideal; it was a fragile achievement constantly threatened by power grabbing, corruption, and the collapse of ritual norms. This line is a soft constraint on hierarchy. It doesn’t abolish ranks, but it demands empathy from the strong and dignity for the weak, reframing authority as a moral performance rather than a license. It’s also a way to make virtue legible: you don’t need to read someone’s intentions if you can see whether they treat others as they would accept being treated.
Its brilliance is how it recruits self-interest without surrendering to it. The appeal is not "be nice", but "recognize yourself in the other person". That makes the ethic portable: it works in court politics, family life, commerce, and friendship. It’s an ancient sentence that anticipates modern worries about consent and reciprocity, insisting that legitimacy begins where imposition ends.
Quote Details
| Topic | Ethics & Morality |
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| Source | Analects (Lunyu), Chinese aphorism "己所不欲,勿施于人" — commonly translated "Do not impose on others what you yourself do not desire" (attributed to Confucius). |
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