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"Do not let a flattering woman coax and wheedle you and deceive you; she is after your barn"

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Hesiod doesn’t bother with romance; he goes straight for the grain bin. The line lands like a farmer’s proverb sharpened into suspicion: desire isn’t just distracting, it’s economically dangerous. A “flattering woman” isn’t framed as a person with motives as complex as anyone else, but as a social force that can pry open a man’s defenses using the oldest technology in the world: praise. The verb trio - “coax and wheedle and deceive” - piles up like a legal charge sheet, insisting this isn’t a one-off mishap but a predictable con.

The barn detail is the masterstroke. Hesiod doesn’t warn you she’s after your heart; he warns she’s after your stored wealth, your winter survival, your family’s future. In an agrarian economy, the barn is liquidity. It’s also masculine responsibility: you are what you can keep safe. So the seduction anxiety doubles as class anxiety. If your household falls, you fall publicly.

Context matters: Hesiod’s world is one of tight margins, inheritance fights, and hard-won self-sufficiency. His poetry in Works and Days is basically a manual for staying afloat in a precarious rural life. Women, in this framework, often appear as risk - not because he’s diagnosing female nature, but because he’s mapping vulnerabilities in the male household system. The subtext is less “women are evil” than “men are persuadable,” and persuasion is expensive. Compliments aren’t free; they’re credit, and Hesiod wants you to read the fine print.

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Hesiod. (2026, January 16). Do not let a flattering woman coax and wheedle you and deceive you; she is after your barn. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-not-let-a-flattering-woman-coax-and-wheedle-125872/

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Hesiod. "Do not let a flattering woman coax and wheedle you and deceive you; she is after your barn." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-not-let-a-flattering-woman-coax-and-wheedle-125872/.

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"Do not let a flattering woman coax and wheedle you and deceive you; she is after your barn." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-not-let-a-flattering-woman-coax-and-wheedle-125872/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.

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Hesiod (800 BC - 720 BC) was a Poet from Greece.

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