"Do not let a flattering woman coax and wheedle you and deceive you; she is after your barn"
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The barn detail is the masterstroke. Hesiod doesn’t warn you she’s after your heart; he warns she’s after your stored wealth, your winter survival, your family’s future. In an agrarian economy, the barn is liquidity. It’s also masculine responsibility: you are what you can keep safe. So the seduction anxiety doubles as class anxiety. If your household falls, you fall publicly.
Context matters: Hesiod’s world is one of tight margins, inheritance fights, and hard-won self-sufficiency. His poetry in Works and Days is basically a manual for staying afloat in a precarious rural life. Women, in this framework, often appear as risk - not because he’s diagnosing female nature, but because he’s mapping vulnerabilities in the male household system. The subtext is less “women are evil” than “men are persuadable,” and persuasion is expensive. Compliments aren’t free; they’re credit, and Hesiod wants you to read the fine print.
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Hesiod. (2026, January 16). Do not let a flattering woman coax and wheedle you and deceive you; she is after your barn. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-not-let-a-flattering-woman-coax-and-wheedle-125872/
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Hesiod. "Do not let a flattering woman coax and wheedle you and deceive you; she is after your barn." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-not-let-a-flattering-woman-coax-and-wheedle-125872/.
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"Do not let a flattering woman coax and wheedle you and deceive you; she is after your barn." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-not-let-a-flattering-woman-coax-and-wheedle-125872/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.










