"Do not pray for easy lives. Pray to be stronger men"
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The subtext is Cold War muscle memory: the world is dangerous, and softness is a liability. When a president urges you not to ask for ease, he’s also asking you to accept sacrifice without complaint - longer hours, higher taxes, sons in uniform, the constant hum of emergency. The phrase “stronger men” lands with the era’s gendered confidence: strength equals virtue, resolve equals patriotism, doubt reads as weakness. That’s not accidental; it’s a cultural cue that narrows the range of acceptable feelings in public life.
It works because it offers control. You can’t always change circumstances, but you can change yourself. Kennedy’s rhetoric sells adversity as self-improvement, turning fear into agency. The politics are elegant: if the goal is national endurance, the most efficient message is a spiritual one - hardship will come, so become the kind of person who can bear it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Resilience |
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| Source | Later attribution: Quotes: The Famous and Not so Famous (Terence M. Dorn Ph.D., 2021) modern compilationISBN: 9781662447952 · ID: ptZSEAAAQBAJ
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