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Faith & Spirit Quote by John F. Kennedy

"Do not pray for easy lives. Pray to be stronger men"

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Kennedy’s line doesn’t comfort; it recruits. In eight brisk words, it flips the natural human request to politics’ preferred posture: not relief, but readiness. The grammar is a command dressed as a prayer, and that’s the trick. He borrows the moral authority of faith to sanctify toughness, turning private anxiety into public discipline. “Easy lives” isn’t just personal convenience; it’s the entire postwar temptation to believe prosperity and American power could insulate citizens from history. Kennedy rejects that fantasy and reframes hardship as a civic proving ground.

The subtext is Cold War muscle memory: the world is dangerous, and softness is a liability. When a president urges you not to ask for ease, he’s also asking you to accept sacrifice without complaint - longer hours, higher taxes, sons in uniform, the constant hum of emergency. The phrase “stronger men” lands with the era’s gendered confidence: strength equals virtue, resolve equals patriotism, doubt reads as weakness. That’s not accidental; it’s a cultural cue that narrows the range of acceptable feelings in public life.

It works because it offers control. You can’t always change circumstances, but you can change yourself. Kennedy’s rhetoric sells adversity as self-improvement, turning fear into agency. The politics are elegant: if the goal is national endurance, the most efficient message is a spiritual one - hardship will come, so become the kind of person who can bear it.

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TopicResilience
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Later attribution: Quotes: The Famous and Not so Famous (Terence M. Dorn Ph.D., 2021) modern compilationISBN: 9781662447952 · ID: ptZSEAAAQBAJ
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... Do not pray for easy lives. Pray to be stronger men.—John F. Kennedy The cost of freedom is always high, but Americans have always paid it. And one path we shall never choose, and that is the path of surrender, or submission.—John F.
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John F. Kennedy

John F. Kennedy (May 29, 1917 - November 22, 1963) was a President from USA.

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