"Do not suppress it - that would hurt you inside. Do not express it - this would not only hurt you inside, it would cause ripples in your surroundings. What you do is transform it"
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The intent is pragmatic and moral at once. As an activist who walked for decades with a message of peace, she’s speaking to people who want change without becoming what they oppose. The subtext is a warning about righteous outrage as a substitute for inner work. Expression, in this frame, can be a kind of emotional littering: cathartic for the speaker, corrosive for the room.
“Transform it” is the tight pivot from restraint to agency. It suggests alchemy, not repression: the energy remains, but its form changes. That points to a discipline recognizable in spiritual traditions and nonviolent organizing alike: convert anger into clarity, fear into preparation, grief into service. Peace Pilgrim isn’t offering a soothing slogan; she’s outlining a technique for surviving political and interpersonal conflict without exporting your pain as policy, punishment, or performance. The line reads like a field manual for integrity: your feelings are real, your reactions are optional, and your impact is your responsibility.
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Pilgrim, Peace. (2026, January 16). Do not suppress it - that would hurt you inside. Do not express it - this would not only hurt you inside, it would cause ripples in your surroundings. What you do is transform it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-not-suppress-it-that-would-hurt-you-inside-104934/
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Pilgrim, Peace. "Do not suppress it - that would hurt you inside. Do not express it - this would not only hurt you inside, it would cause ripples in your surroundings. What you do is transform it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-not-suppress-it-that-would-hurt-you-inside-104934/.
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"Do not suppress it - that would hurt you inside. Do not express it - this would not only hurt you inside, it would cause ripples in your surroundings. What you do is transform it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-not-suppress-it-that-would-hurt-you-inside-104934/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






