"Do the best that you can in the place where you are, and be kind"
About this Quote
“In the place where you are” is the quiet rebuke. Activism loves elsewhere - the capital, the big march, the symbolic battleground that flatters our sense of importance. Nearing insists that ethics is geographic. Your work is not the work you fantasize about; it’s the work available inside your constraints: your job, your neighborhood, your body, your era. That phrase also softens despair. If the world is too large to fix, your radius isn’t.
Then he adds the line that keeps the first half from hardening into mere productivity: “and be kind.” Kindness here isn’t a Hallmark gloss; it’s strategic and moral discipline. Movements fracture from contempt as much as from repression. Being kind is a refusal to let righteous anger turn into cruelty, a reminder that the point of social change is human flourishing, not victory rituals.
The subtext is survival. Nearing’s era trained people to equate seriousness with severity. He offers an alternative: steady effort anchored in place, with a temperament that doesn’t corrode the very community you’re trying to build.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
|---|---|
| Source | Scott Nearing — quote listed on Wikiquote: "Do the best that you can in the place where you are, and be kind". |
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Nearing, Scott. (2026, January 15). Do the best that you can in the place where you are, and be kind. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-the-best-that-you-can-in-the-place-where-you-163132/
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Nearing, Scott. "Do the best that you can in the place where you are, and be kind." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-the-best-that-you-can-in-the-place-where-you-163132/.
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"Do the best that you can in the place where you are, and be kind." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-the-best-that-you-can-in-the-place-where-you-163132/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










