"Do the best you can with yourself and hope for the best"
About this Quote
The key phrase is "with yourself". Not with your career, your brand, your glow-up. With yourself: your limits, your history, your habits, your temper, your body. Lynn's catalog was full of women negotiating with circumstances that didn't bend easily - marriage, money, small-town judgment, the price of wanting more. This line carries that same lived-in realism. It's not an anthem for passivity; it's a boundary against self-blame.
The subtext is almost pastoral: stop treating life like a courtroom where outcomes prove your worth. Do what is yours to do, then release the rest. Coming from Lynn, who turned hard biography into sharp, funny, defiant songs, it reads as survival advice from someone who never pretended pain was poetic. Hope here isn't optimism-as-aesthetic; it's the stubborn, working-class kind - the thing you keep in your pocket when certainty is a luxury.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Improvement |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lynn, Loretta. (2026, January 17). Do the best you can with yourself and hope for the best. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-the-best-you-can-with-yourself-and-hope-for-70102/
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Lynn, Loretta. "Do the best you can with yourself and hope for the best." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-the-best-you-can-with-yourself-and-hope-for-70102/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Do the best you can with yourself and hope for the best." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-the-best-you-can-with-yourself-and-hope-for-70102/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.












