"Do unto yourself as your neighbors do unto themselves, and look pleasant"
About this Quote
Ade’s intent is satirical compression. “Do unto yourself” parodies moral instruction by redirecting it inward, where it becomes not ethics but conformity. The line skewers a culture that confuses virtue with looking normal: eat what the neighbors eat, spend what they spend, worry about what they worry about. “As your neighbors do unto themselves” makes community sound less like fellowship than peer pressure with good manners. It’s a portrait of social control that doesn’t need a tyrant; it just needs a block.
The subtext is that the harshest policing is voluntary. You don’t have to be coerced; you just have to compare. Ade’s extra twist is “and look pleasant,” the final dagger. You’re not merely expected to conform; you’re expected to perform gratitude while doing it. That phrase captures the emotional labor baked into respectability: the smile that says, nothing to see here, I’m fine, we’re all fine.
Context matters: Ade wrote in an America industrializing fast, anxious about status, hungry for propriety. His humor belongs to that era’s genteel satire, where the punchline arrives in perfect posture - and exposes the cost of keeping it.
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Ade, George. (2026, February 20). Do unto yourself as your neighbors do unto themselves, and look pleasant. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-unto-yourself-as-your-neighbors-do-unto-12557/
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Ade, George. "Do unto yourself as your neighbors do unto themselves, and look pleasant." FixQuotes. February 20, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-unto-yourself-as-your-neighbors-do-unto-12557/.
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"Do unto yourself as your neighbors do unto themselves, and look pleasant." FixQuotes, 20 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-unto-yourself-as-your-neighbors-do-unto-12557/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.











