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"Do we need distance to get close?"

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Distance is the sneaky third character in every romance plot Sarah Jessica Parker has ever had to sell: the thing that breaks people apart and, perversely, gives them room to want each other again. "Do we need distance to get close?" lands like a cocktail-party question, but it’s really a dare. It challenges the fantasy that intimacy is just proximity plus effort. Sometimes closeness is possible only when you stop grinding your edges against someone else’s.

Coming from an actress synonymous with urbane relationship autopsies, the line carries the cultural baggage of modern love in big cities: the constant negotiation between independence as identity and partnership as aspiration. The "we" matters. It’s not a solitary self-care mantra; it’s a relationship problem framed as a joint experiment. The question form is doing the heavy lifting, too. No moral, no tidy resolution, just the recognition that longing and space can be co-conspirators.

Subtext: distance isn’t only miles. It’s time, boundaries, unsaid needs, the strategic pause before you text back. It’s therapy language filtered through pop conversation, where "taking space" can mean a healthy reset or a soft breakup with plausible deniability. The line also hints at privilege: not everyone can afford distance, geographically or emotionally. But for those who can, the provocation is sharp: maybe closeness is less about constant contact and more about preserving a self worth returning to.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Parker, Sarah Jessica. (2026, January 15). Do we need distance to get close? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-we-need-distance-to-get-close-145084/

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Parker, Sarah Jessica. "Do we need distance to get close?" FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-we-need-distance-to-get-close-145084/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Do we need distance to get close?" FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-we-need-distance-to-get-close-145084/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Sarah Jessica Parker (born March 25, 1965) is a Actress from USA.

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