"Do you wish people to think well of you? Don't speak well of yourself"
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The subtext is almost brutal in its realism. Pascal assumes most of us are already suspicious of self-narration because we know how easily it can be engineered. Self-praise reads less like truth and more like strategy, a PR campaign staged in miniature. The more polished it is, the less trustworthy it sounds. By refusing to “speak well of yourself,” you let others experience the pleasurable autonomy of forming their own verdict. Compliments are most flattering when they feel discovered, not solicited.
Context matters: Pascal writes from a 17th-century world obsessed with etiquette, hierarchy, and the spiritual danger of pride. As a thinker attuned to human self-deception, he’s also warning that the ego is a lousy witness. You can’t reliably testify to your own virtue because self-interest is always cross-examining.
There’s an edge here that still lands in the age of personal branding. Pascal’s point isn’t that you should be invisible; it’s that the fastest way to look small is to sound impressed with yourself.
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| Topic | Humility |
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"Do you wish people to think well of you? Don't speak well of yourself." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/do-you-wish-people-to-think-well-of-you-dont-30222/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






