"Domestic goddesses have infiltrated everybody's lives and raised the bar way too high"
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The verb “infiltrated” matters. It frames domestic aspiration as something covert and invasive, not an organic cultural shift. That implies we didn’t collectively choose higher expectations; they were marketed to us, normalized, then enforced via comparison. “Raised the bar way too high” is a comic understatement with real bite: it points to the creeping sense of failure that follows when ordinary life is measured against curated competence.
As an actress and media personality, Donovan is speaking from inside the machine that manufactures these ideals, which gives the line an extra sting. She’s not moralizing about housework; she’s diagnosing an economy of aspiration where the home becomes a performance stage and “good enough” is quietly replaced by “camera-ready.” The subtext is feminist but not sanctimonious: the bar doesn’t just rise, it lands hardest on women, turning care into competition and leisure into unpaid labor with better lighting.
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Donovan, Daisy. (2026, January 16). Domestic goddesses have infiltrated everybody's lives and raised the bar way too high. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/domestic-goddesses-have-infiltrated-everybodys-119932/
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Donovan, Daisy. "Domestic goddesses have infiltrated everybody's lives and raised the bar way too high." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/domestic-goddesses-have-infiltrated-everybodys-119932/.
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"Domestic goddesses have infiltrated everybody's lives and raised the bar way too high." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/domestic-goddesses-have-infiltrated-everybodys-119932/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.







