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Success Quote by Dalai Lama

"Don't be a person of success, be a person of value"

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“Don’t be a person of success” lands like a quiet provocation because it targets a modern religion without naming it: achievement as identity. The Dalai Lama’s phrasing flips the usual self-help script. He doesn’t argue that success is bad; he suggests it’s unreliable as a moral compass. “Success” is public-facing and metric-friendly, the kind of thing you can count, compare, and curate. “Value,” by contrast, is relational and ethical. It asks not “What did you get?” but “What did you give, and at what cost?”

The line works rhetorically because it’s built as a contrast that reads like common sense, yet it destabilizes the listener’s default settings. It’s also a subtle critique of status anxiety: the fear that if you’re not winning, you’re disappearing. By redirecting the goal from outcomes to contribution, the quote offers a different kind of security - one rooted in character and compassion rather than applause.

Context matters. As a spiritual leader shaped by exile and a long political struggle, the Dalai Lama speaks from a worldview where inner discipline and ethical action aren’t lifestyle choices; they’re survival tools. In a global culture that sells “success” as proof of worth, he’s insisting on a separation: your worth is not your resume. The subtext is almost administrative in its calmness: if you optimize only for winning, you’ll eventually justify anything. If you optimize for value, you have to answer to people, not trophies.

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Lama, Dalai. (2026, January 15). Don't be a person of success, be a person of value. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-be-a-person-of-success-be-a-person-of-value-172828/

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Lama, Dalai. "Don't be a person of success, be a person of value." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-be-a-person-of-success-be-a-person-of-value-172828/.

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"Don't be a person of success, be a person of value." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-be-a-person-of-success-be-a-person-of-value-172828/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.

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Dalai Lama (born July 6, 1935) is a Leader from Tibet.

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