"Don't be afraid of missing opportunities. Behind every failure is an opportunity somebody wishes they had missed"
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The intent is reassurance, but not the cheesy kind. Tomlin isn't telling you to stop trying; she's telling you to stop worshipping. The subtext is that "missing out" is often just another name for good judgment. In a culture that treats hesitation as weakness and regret as proof you didn't want it badly enough, she offers permission to be selective, even skeptical.
As an actress and comedian who built a career puncturing social scripts, Tomlin knows how "opportunity" gets used as leverage: take the deal, be grateful, don't complain. The joke carries a pragmatic feminist edge too - especially for people taught to accept whatever opening appears, because another one might not come. Her line reclaims agency: sometimes the win isn't grabbing the chance; it's dodging the mess it would have become.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tomlin, Lily. (2026, January 17). Don't be afraid of missing opportunities. Behind every failure is an opportunity somebody wishes they had missed. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-be-afraid-of-missing-opportunities-behind-26254/
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Tomlin, Lily. "Don't be afraid of missing opportunities. Behind every failure is an opportunity somebody wishes they had missed." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-be-afraid-of-missing-opportunities-behind-26254/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Don't be afraid of missing opportunities. Behind every failure is an opportunity somebody wishes they had missed." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-be-afraid-of-missing-opportunities-behind-26254/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.










