"Don't believe your friends when they ask you to be honest with them. All they really want is to be maintained in the good opinion they have of themselves"
About this Quote
The intent is less misanthropy than clarity about self-deception. Camus spent his career circling the ways humans invent meaning to tolerate an indifferent world. Here, “good opinion” functions like a private religion: a story we need to keep living. Friends become congregants, asked to perform rituals of affirmation. Honesty threatens the liturgy, so the invitation to candor comes with an unspoken rule: don’t change the ending.
What makes the quote work is its inversion of a social ideal. Friendship is supposed to be where truth is safest; Camus flips it, arguing that intimacy can increase the pressure to lie because the stakes are higher. The subtext is ethically thorny: authenticity isn’t just a personal virtue, it’s a social cost. If you tell the truth, you risk being cast as cruel, disloyal, or “negative,” because you’ve interrupted someone’s preferred self-portrait.
Context matters: Camus is writing in a Europe haunted by propaganda, collaboration, and moral compromise. He’s suspicious of comfort masquerading as integrity. The line implies a hard, modern question: do we want honesty, or do we want a mirror that forgives?
Quote Details
| Topic | Fake Friends |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Camus, Albert. (2026, January 18). Don't believe your friends when they ask you to be honest with them. All they really want is to be maintained in the good opinion they have of themselves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-believe-your-friends-when-they-ask-you-to-be-15129/
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Camus, Albert. "Don't believe your friends when they ask you to be honest with them. All they really want is to be maintained in the good opinion they have of themselves." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-believe-your-friends-when-they-ask-you-to-be-15129/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Don't believe your friends when they ask you to be honest with them. All they really want is to be maintained in the good opinion they have of themselves." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-believe-your-friends-when-they-ask-you-to-be-15129/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.









