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Daily Inspiration Quote by Eartha Kitt

"Don't depend on other people to be responsible for you. Don't make yourself stressed out over nonsensical things like material things"

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Eartha Kitt’s warning lands with the snap of someone who’s watched whole rooms of powerful people crumble over trivia. “Don’t depend on other people to be responsible for you” isn’t a generic self-help slogan from an actress; it’s the hard-won ethic of a Black woman who built a career in industries that routinely punished autonomy and rewarded pliability. The line carries subtext: dependency is not just emotional laziness, it’s a liability in a world where other people’s promises are conditional, political, and often self-serving.

The second sentence sharpens the blade. Calling material concerns “nonsensical” isn’t naïveté about money; it’s a refusal to let possessions become the moral scoreboard. Kitt isn’t pretending bills don’t exist. She’s mocking the particular kind of stress that comes from mistaking acquisition for security, or mistaking the appearance of success for actual freedom. That’s a performer’s insight: she knew how easily audiences (and executives, and lovers) confuse image with substance, and how expensive that confusion gets.

Context matters because Kitt’s public life was marked by consequences for speaking plainly, especially when she challenged power. Read through that lens, the quote becomes less about serenity and more about sovereignty. She’s prescribing a survival tactic: anchor your life in choices you can own, not in people who can leave, and not in stuff that can’t love you back.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kitt, Eartha. (2026, January 17). Don't depend on other people to be responsible for you. Don't make yourself stressed out over nonsensical things like material things. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-depend-on-other-people-to-be-responsible-for-53980/

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Kitt, Eartha. "Don't depend on other people to be responsible for you. Don't make yourself stressed out over nonsensical things like material things." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-depend-on-other-people-to-be-responsible-for-53980/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Don't depend on other people to be responsible for you. Don't make yourself stressed out over nonsensical things like material things." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-depend-on-other-people-to-be-responsible-for-53980/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Eartha Kitt (born January 17, 1927) is a Actress from USA.

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