"Don't grieve. Anything you lose comes round in another form"
About this Quote
The line works because it refuses the modern fantasy that what we love is best protected by holding on tighter. Rumi suggests the opposite: attachment is the real source of pain, not absence itself. “Anything you lose” widens the scope beyond lovers and possessions to include youth, certainty, identity - the whole catalogue of things the ego panics about. The promise that it “comes round” is not a guarantee of replacement in kind; it’s an invitation to notice transformation. The subtext is sternly anti-sentimental: mourn if you must, but don’t mistake mourning for truth.
Context sharpens it. Rumi writes in the aftermath of upheaval and in the long shadow of mortality, within a devotional tradition that frames life as separation from the divine and love as the engine of return. His language is deliberately plain, almost domestic, because the claim is radical: the universe is not subtracting from you; it’s moving you. The consolation is real, but it comes with a demand - surrender your preferred shape of the world, and you may get the world back, newly shaped.
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| Topic | Letting Go |
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Rumi. (2026, January 14). Don't grieve. Anything you lose comes round in another form. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-grieve-anything-you-lose-comes-round-in-1621/
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Rumi. "Don't grieve. Anything you lose comes round in another form." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-grieve-anything-you-lose-comes-round-in-1621/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Don't grieve. Anything you lose comes round in another form." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-grieve-anything-you-lose-comes-round-in-1621/. Accessed 15 Feb. 2026.







