"Don't let your ego get too close to your position, so that if your position gets shot down, your ego doesn't go with it"
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Powell’s choice of “shot down” isn’t decorative. It borrows the language of combat to describe bureaucratic and political life, where reputations get hit, plans get scrapped, and alliances turn. The intent is defensive and strategic: build a self that can survive being wrong. In high-stakes institutions, the danger isn’t just emotional fragility; it’s decision-making distortion. Leaders who fuse ego with position start protecting status over outcomes, doubling down on bad calls because retreat would be humiliation.
The subtext is also a quiet critique of Washington’s performance culture, where certainty is rewarded and revision is treated as weakness. Powell is advocating a different kind of strength: the ability to detach, absorb a loss, and keep moving. That posture isn’t humility for humility’s sake; it’s operational resilience. When your ego stays at a safe distance, you can take fire, adjust, and still lead.
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| Topic | Humility |
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| Source | Evidence: AVOID HAVING YOUR EGO SO CLOSE TO YOUR POSITION THAT WHEN YOUR POSITION FALLS, YOUR EGO GOES WITH IT. (Chapter 1 ("My Thirteen Rules")). This is the primary-source wording as printed in Powell's memoir (co-authored with Tony Koltz) as part of his "Thirteen Rules." The variant you provided (“Don’t let your ego get too close to your position, so that if your position gets shot down, your ego doesn’t go with it”) appears widely on quote-aggregation sites, but I did not find that exact "gets shot down" wording in a primary source during this search; it looks like a paraphrase/variant of Powell’s printed rule. The Everand page is a hosted ebook edition/preview that reproduces the text, and it shows the rule in Chapter 1. Other candidates (1) What You Can Learn From Military Principles (Virender Kapoor, 2017) compilation95.6% ... Colin Powell said , " Don't let your ego get too close to your position , so that if your position gets shot down... |
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Powell, Colin. "Don't let your ego get too close to your position, so that if your position gets shot down, your ego doesn't go with it." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-let-your-ego-get-too-close-to-your-position-30647/.
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"Don't let your ego get too close to your position, so that if your position gets shot down, your ego doesn't go with it." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-let-your-ego-get-too-close-to-your-position-30647/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.






