"Don't rely on men but don't shun them either"
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The second clause, “but don’t shun them either,” is the crucial softener and the real strategy. It refuses the neat binary that media and self-help culture both profit from: either you “need a man” or you’re “bitter.” Aniston threads a middle needle that feels distinctly post-1990s: keep your autonomy, keep your openness. Don’t mistake independence for isolation, and don’t confuse boundaries with hostility.
It also reads as reputation management, in the best sense: a way of resisting being cast as either the clingy girlfriend or the man-hating singleton. The intent is pragmatic, not ideological. Build a life that stands on its own, then let men be additive, not structural. That’s why it works: it’s a compact rebuttal to a whole tabloid mythology, delivered as simple, usable guidance.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Aniston, Jennifer. (2026, January 16). Don't rely on men but don't shun them either. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-rely-on-men-but-dont-shun-them-either-83141/
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Aniston, Jennifer. "Don't rely on men but don't shun them either." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-rely-on-men-but-dont-shun-them-either-83141/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Don't rely on men but don't shun them either." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-rely-on-men-but-dont-shun-them-either-83141/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









