"Don't speak evil of someone if you don't know for certain, and if you do know ask yourself, why am I telling it?"
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The sharper move is the second clause, because it refuses to let factuality launder cruelty. Even if the negative claim is true, Lavater demands an audit of motive: "why am I telling it?" The subtext is that people rarely report others' faults as neutral couriers. They tell on others to bond, to entertain, to punish, to elevate themselves by comparison, to feel briefly righteous. Lavater’s question exposes that pleasure and calls it what it is: self-love dressed up as honesty.
It’s also a quiet rebuke to the emerging Enlightenment confidence that truth is automatically virtuous. For Lavater, truth without charity is still a vice; certainty doesn’t sanctify intent. The line anticipates modern ideas about "necessary speech" versus "true speech": information can be correct and still function as harm. His ethic isn’t silence at all costs; it’s restraint calibrated by responsibility. Speech becomes a moral act only when it serves repair, protection, or justice rather than appetite.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lavater, Johann Kaspar. (2026, January 18). Don't speak evil of someone if you don't know for certain, and if you do know ask yourself, why am I telling it? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-speak-evil-of-someone-if-you-dont-know-for-22998/
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Lavater, Johann Kaspar. "Don't speak evil of someone if you don't know for certain, and if you do know ask yourself, why am I telling it?" FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-speak-evil-of-someone-if-you-dont-know-for-22998/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Don't speak evil of someone if you don't know for certain, and if you do know ask yourself, why am I telling it?" FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-speak-evil-of-someone-if-you-dont-know-for-22998/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.








