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War & Peace Quote by Toše Proeski

"Don't you hurt the ones you love; eventually, like a bullet from a gun, some things can never be undone so easily"

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A pop ballad warning dressed up like a confession, this line lands because it refuses the easy romance of “love conquers all” and replaces it with damage math. “Don’t you hurt the ones you love” isn’t wisdom from on high; it’s the voice of someone who has watched intimacy turn careless. The second clause detonates the sentimentality: “eventually, like a bullet from a gun”. That simile is deliberately blunt, almost too literal, and that’s the point. In a genre that often aestheticizes heartbreak, Proeski chooses an image that makes harm physical, irreversible, and culpable. A bullet isn’t an accident; it’s a decision with a trigger.

The subtext is about time and escalation. “Eventually” implies the injury isn’t always dramatic at first. It accumulates through small betrayals, sharp words, neglect that feels survivable in the moment. Then the relationship crosses a threshold where apologies stop functioning as currency. “Some things can never be undone so easily” is the anti-chorus to the modern faith in emotional do-overs: say sorry, post a song, make a grand gesture. Proeski suggests there are wounds that don’t heal on schedule because they reorder trust itself.

Context matters: Proeski was a beloved Balkan pop figure, trading in sincerity in a region where pop often doubles as public therapy after years of social fracture. The line reads not only as personal counsel but as cultural mirror, a reminder that tenderness is fragile precisely because it feels safe. Love doesn’t make you gentler by default; it gives your actions higher stakes.

Quote Details

TopicHeartbreak
SourceSong lyrics: “Don't Hurt the Ones You Love” (English-language track; released posthumously on the album “The Hardest Thing”, 25 Jan 2009).
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Proeski, Toše. (2026, February 15). Don't you hurt the ones you love; eventually, like a bullet from a gun, some things can never be undone so easily. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-you-hurt-the-ones-you-love-eventually-like-a-185445/

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Proeski, Toše. "Don't you hurt the ones you love; eventually, like a bullet from a gun, some things can never be undone so easily." FixQuotes. February 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-you-hurt-the-ones-you-love-eventually-like-a-185445/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Don't you hurt the ones you love; eventually, like a bullet from a gun, some things can never be undone so easily." FixQuotes, 15 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dont-you-hurt-the-ones-you-love-eventually-like-a-185445/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.

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Toše Proeski

Toše Proeski (January 25, 1981 - October 16, 2007) was a Musician from Macedonia.

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