"Doorways are sacred to women for we are the doorways of life and we must choose what comes in and what goes out"
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The intent is bluntly corrective. Women are often cast as spaces to be entered, used, occupied: the room, the house, the body. Piercy flips the grammar. The doorway isn’t a passive opening; it’s a site of choice, a mechanism with a lock. “We must choose what comes in and what goes out” reads like a mantra of consent, but it also widens into a broader ethic of boundaries: lovers, violence, ideology, labor, expectations. The “must” matters; autonomy here isn’t a vibe, it’s a duty, born from the costs of being treated as permeable.
Contextually, Piercy’s work emerges from second-wave feminism’s insistence that private life is political. This line carries that inheritance while anticipating later conversations about bodily autonomy and gatekeeping as survival. It works because it refuses abstraction: instead of arguing, it gives you a threshold and asks who has been allowed to stand there with the keys.
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Piercy, Marge. (2026, January 11). Doorways are sacred to women for we are the doorways of life and we must choose what comes in and what goes out. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/doorways-are-sacred-to-women-for-we-are-the-173650/
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Piercy, Marge. "Doorways are sacred to women for we are the doorways of life and we must choose what comes in and what goes out." FixQuotes. January 11, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/doorways-are-sacred-to-women-for-we-are-the-173650/.
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"Doorways are sacred to women for we are the doorways of life and we must choose what comes in and what goes out." FixQuotes, 11 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/doorways-are-sacred-to-women-for-we-are-the-173650/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.










