"Dream and give yourself permission to envision a you that you choose to be"
About this Quote
"Dream" is the obvious verb, but "give yourself permission" is the engine. It assumes the listener is already censoring their imagination, policing it for being too grand, too embarrassing, too "not for people like me". Page points to that familiar psychological bureaucracy: the invisible panel of judges made up of parents, gatekeepers, and past failures. The solution isn't to fight them head-on; it's to stop asking them.
The phrase "a You that you choose to be" is doing a lot of cultural work. It rejects the idea of a single authentic self waiting to be discovered and replaces it with something more modern and more performative: identity as authorship. For an actor, that rings true. You build a character through decisions - voice, posture, motive - until choice becomes reality. Page extends that logic to everyday life, implying that "who you are" is partly a role you keep rehearsing.
The subtext is bracing: if you don't choose, something else will choose for you. The quote offers agency, but it also quietly hands you responsibility, which is why it stings in a useful way.
Quote Details
| Topic | Reinvention |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Page, Joy. (2026, February 16). Dream and give yourself permission to envision a you that you choose to be. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dream-and-give-yourself-permission-to-envision-a-127225/
Chicago Style
Page, Joy. "Dream and give yourself permission to envision a you that you choose to be." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dream-and-give-yourself-permission-to-envision-a-127225/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Dream and give yourself permission to envision a you that you choose to be." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dream-and-give-yourself-permission-to-envision-a-127225/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.










