"Dreaming is one thing, and working towards the dream is one thing, but working with expectations in mind is very self-defeating"
About this Quote
The quote works because it splits “working” into two different psychologies. Working toward a dream is directional; it tolerates uncertainty and treats effort as its own proof. Working with expectations is transactional; it smuggles in an audience before the work exists. That audience might be executives, critics, fans, or the harsher one living in your own head. In entertainment, where success is publicly measured and privately precarious, expectations don’t just motivate - they distort. They push you toward safe choices, toward chasing last season’s version of yourself, toward mistaking external validation for craft.
The subtext is quietly rebellious: detach the process from the scoreboard. Landon’s era of network television rewarded predictability and punished risk, yet his most enduring appeal was sincerity - the sense that he was present, not angling. “Self-defeating” is the key phrase; he’s not romanticizing struggle, he’s naming a practical trap. Expectations promise control, but they mainly manufacture disappointment, because they turn the uncontrollable (how the world responds) into the thing you’re working for.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Landon, Michael. (2026, January 16). Dreaming is one thing, and working towards the dream is one thing, but working with expectations in mind is very self-defeating. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dreaming-is-one-thing-and-working-towards-the-88938/
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Landon, Michael. "Dreaming is one thing, and working towards the dream is one thing, but working with expectations in mind is very self-defeating." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dreaming-is-one-thing-and-working-towards-the-88938/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Dreaming is one thing, and working towards the dream is one thing, but working with expectations in mind is very self-defeating." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dreaming-is-one-thing-and-working-towards-the-88938/. Accessed 15 Feb. 2026.












