"Dreams are, by definition, cursed with short life spans"
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The intent is bracingly anti-myth. Bergen isn’t attacking ambition; she’s puncturing the fantasy that a dream can stay pristine while life happens. “By definition” is the tell: she frames the short lifespan as structural, not personal failure. That small rhetorical move shifts blame away from the dreamer and toward the nature of dreaming itself. A dream is a projection, a temporary story your brain tells to bridge the gap between now and next. Once you reach “next,” the story either collapses into reality or mutates into a new want.
The subtext is about identity management, especially in celebrity culture where the “dream” is often packaged as a brand. In that world, holding onto one dream too long can look like stagnation; letting it die can look like betrayal. Bergen’s sentence offers a third option: treat dream-death as normal metabolism. The curse isn’t that dreams end; it’s that we’re taught to mourn the ending as if it proves we didn’t believe enough, when it may just prove we kept living.
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Bergen, Candice. (2026, January 17). Dreams are, by definition, cursed with short life spans. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dreams-are-by-definition-cursed-with-short-life-43776/
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Bergen, Candice. "Dreams are, by definition, cursed with short life spans." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dreams-are-by-definition-cursed-with-short-life-43776/.
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"Dreams are, by definition, cursed with short life spans." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dreams-are-by-definition-cursed-with-short-life-43776/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.








