"During Breaking The Waves, I was on my own in a hotel room. I think I would have been impossible to live with. When you go home, you have to pretend to be the person you are at home"
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Her sharpest insight is the quiet violence of re-entry: “When you go home, you have to pretend to be the person you are at home.” That line flips the usual story we tell about authenticity. Home is supposed to be the place where you stop performing. Watson suggests the opposite: domestic life has its own script, its own expectations of temperament and availability, and after living inside a character’s intensity all day, you have to act “normal” for the people you love. The subtext is that intimacy doesn’t automatically grant you a pass; it demands a version of you that can be just as constructed as any role.
Contextually, Breaking the Waves is famous for its rawness and emotional extremity, and Watson’s comment reads like a behind-the-scenes correction to the myth of effortless immersion. The intent isn’t to romanticize suffering, but to name the cost: great acting can require a temporary, careful estrangement from your everyday self, and the hardest scene might be dinner afterward.
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Watson, Emily. (n.d.). During Breaking The Waves, I was on my own in a hotel room. I think I would have been impossible to live with. When you go home, you have to pretend to be the person you are at home. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/during-breaking-the-waves-i-was-on-my-own-in-a-50094/
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Watson, Emily. "During Breaking The Waves, I was on my own in a hotel room. I think I would have been impossible to live with. When you go home, you have to pretend to be the person you are at home." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/during-breaking-the-waves-i-was-on-my-own-in-a-50094/.
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"During Breaking The Waves, I was on my own in a hotel room. I think I would have been impossible to live with. When you go home, you have to pretend to be the person you are at home." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/during-breaking-the-waves-i-was-on-my-own-in-a-50094/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.







