"During that first year, I felt guilty that my wife was out working, bringing in all our income, while I was at home playing on the computer, so I made myself treat writing like a job"
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The subtext is about legitimacy. Writing, in this telling, isn’t validated by inspiration; it’s validated by discipline that resembles wage labor. Stephen is trying to move his activity from the cultural category of hobby to the social category of work, because the household economy demands it. You can hear the quiet fear behind the guilt: if he doesn’t professionalize, he’s not just failing at art, he’s failing at adulthood.
There’s also an uneasy gender and power dynamic embedded in the phrasing. He casts his wife as the provider, an inversion of older expectations that a businessman of his era would have been raised on. His guilt isn’t only personal; it’s socially conditioned, a response to the embarrassment of being seen as dependent. Treating writing “like a job” becomes a way to restore balance without immediately restoring income.
The most effective move is the bluntness. By admitting the “computer” indulgence, he strips away the noble-suffering myth of the writer and replaces it with something more modern and more cutting: responsibility as the real muse.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stephen, George. (2026, February 17). During that first year, I felt guilty that my wife was out working, bringing in all our income, while I was at home playing on the computer, so I made myself treat writing like a job. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/during-that-first-year-i-felt-guilty-that-my-wife-105125/
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Stephen, George. "During that first year, I felt guilty that my wife was out working, bringing in all our income, while I was at home playing on the computer, so I made myself treat writing like a job." FixQuotes. February 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/during-that-first-year-i-felt-guilty-that-my-wife-105125/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"During that first year, I felt guilty that my wife was out working, bringing in all our income, while I was at home playing on the computer, so I made myself treat writing like a job." FixQuotes, 17 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/during-that-first-year-i-felt-guilty-that-my-wife-105125/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.




