"Dying is only one thing to be sad over... Living unhappily is something else"
About this Quote
As an educator, Schwartz’s intent reads like a curriculum change. Stop treating death as the ultimate teacher and start letting unhappiness be diagnostic: a signal that a life is being mislived, not merely endured. The subtext is gently accusatory. If you reserve your deepest sorrow for the end, you grant yourself permission to sleepwalk through the middle. You can mourn a death without changing anything; you can’t mourn an unhappy life without confronting agency, choices, and the systems that reward numbness.
Context matters here: Schwartz is widely associated with late-life reflection and a public reckoning with illness. That vantage point sharpens the moral economy of the quote. When time gets scarce, “unhappily” stops sounding like a mood and starts sounding like a cost - paid daily, compounded quietly, and too often normalized until it feels like personality.
Quote Details
| Topic | Happiness |
|---|---|
| Source | Tuesdays with Morrie — Mitch Albom (1997). Line attributed to Morrie Schwartz in Albom's book recording his conversations with Morrie. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Schwartz, Morrie. (2026, January 15). Dying is only one thing to be sad over... Living unhappily is something else. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dying-is-only-one-thing-to-be-sad-over-living-5161/
Chicago Style
Schwartz, Morrie. "Dying is only one thing to be sad over... Living unhappily is something else." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dying-is-only-one-thing-to-be-sad-over-living-5161/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Dying is only one thing to be sad over... Living unhappily is something else." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dying-is-only-one-thing-to-be-sad-over-living-5161/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.












